{"id":1719,"date":"2018-09-18T14:53:37","date_gmt":"2018-09-18T14:53:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sophiehannah.com\/?page_id=1719"},"modified":"2024-05-22T14:17:48","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T14:17:48","slug":"how-to-hold-a-grudge-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sophiehannah.com\/how-to-hold-a-grudge-2\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Hold a Grudge"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; specialty=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_1=&#8221;rgba(255,255,255,0.4)&#8221; padding_top_1=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_right_1=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_bottom_1=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_left_1=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_top_bottom_link_1=&#8221;true&#8221; padding_left_right_link_1=&#8221;true&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_stops=&#8221;rgba(252,168,58,0.7) 0%|#edf1c4 100%&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;rgba(252,168,58,0.7)&#8221; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;#edf1c4&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;60px|0px|40px|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_color=&#8221;rgba(255,255,255,0.4)&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; padding_bottom__hover=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_left__hover=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_right__hover=&#8221;40px&#8221; padding_top__hover=&#8221;40px&#8221; background_color__hover=&#8221;rgba(255,255,255,0.4)&#8221; parallax__hover=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method__hover=&#8221;on&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;On Sale bar DESKTOP&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;28&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;|on||on|&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; header_font_size=&#8221;46px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px|&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|0px|0px|0px|true&#8221; text_font_size_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; text_font_size_phone=&#8221;22&#8243; text_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; header_font_size_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; header_font_size_phone=&#8221;36px&#8221; header_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Paperback on sale now!<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; divider_weight=&#8221;8px&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Divider MOBILE&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; max_width=&#8221;70px&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;left&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;7px||||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]&nbsp;<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;26&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;1.3em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;|700||on|||||&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; header_2_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_2_font_size=&#8221;46px&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||20px|&#8221; text_font_size_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; text_font_size_phone=&#8221;22&#8243; text_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; header_font_size_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; header_font_size_phone=&#8221;36px&#8221; header_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2>HOW TO HOLD A GRUDGE:<\/h2>\n<p><strong>FROM RESENTMENT TO CONTENTMENT \u2014 THE POWER OF GRUDGES TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Holding\u00a0grudges is seen by many people as a bad thing\u00a0\u2014\u00a0but what if our grudges, when managed correctly, are good for us?<\/p>\n<p>What if they can protect and inspire us, and\u00a0help us to clarify our highest values and priorities? 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